It only took 9 days!!

That's all it took for Amelia to violently shake free of my hand when she approached her classroom. Obviously she didn't want her teacher to see us holding hands. My heart dropped a little. Luckily she had no problem giving me a big hug and kiss and yelling out "I love you" so I will just chalk it up to the fact that she doesn't like holding my hand (which she usually doesn't like to hold hands even as a baby, she was always breaking free to do it by herself) and not that she has already out grown me!!!! This is a pic of picking her up after her first day of school. Her face looks like this every day after school. Grinning ear to ear.

My first day of school all over again

Amelia went to Kindergarten today!!! She could hardly get to sleep last night and was up at 6:30 this morning because she didn't want to be late. I was starting to think she was abnormal because she has been so excited (for nearly a year now) with no sign of nervousness about school at all. Just sheer excitement. I finally got to see a little glimmer of normal first-day-of-school-nerves when she told me that she couldn't finish her bowl of cereal!!!! That's a pretty big deal for her. She's usually a 2 bowl girl and I have to cut her off. But she put on a good front and didn't admit to anything less than total excitement. I like this series of pictures because it shows her from the leaving our house to where we leaver her at school.


This is her making her way to her classroom. Notice the hand wringing!! It slowly progressed to nail biting!! But she still is smiling.












This is outside her classroom.















And this is her classroom. She was one of the first kids there, so she got to pick her seat and she chose the table with no one at it in the front of the class. She was really starting to loose the smile at this point. Luckily she had to wait about 10 minutes or so until the teacher started and the parents were asked to stay the first 10 minutes after that to go over what to expect. I think this really helped because by the time we were ready to leave, she looked bored and ready to do something. I had given her a kiss and said my goodbye's when she first sat down, so I made Philip go up to give her a hug and kiss goodbye (so I didn't break down crying in front of everyone) and she waved and blew me a kiss and was smiling and that was it. Just like that we got down graded from the most important people in her life to sharing it with someone else now!!! I held it together just fine. I think Philip was more emotional about it than me!!! Now I just wait to go back.


Guess what the first thing Ben did when we got home???? Get Amelia's Jessie doll, a toy he is typically not allowed to play with. It cracked me up how he is wasting no time taking advantage of free reign of the house.

Guess Who......

..........Just turned 5!!!!

And to celebrate, we had an entire weekend of festivities for her. She has been wanting a Tangled birthday since she saw the movie almost a year ago!!! I am always happy to oblige especially when it's a theme I can sew and bake for. To kick it off, we went to the zoo and she got to feed the giraffe. She was so excited and did a great job not dropping the lettuce or jumping back, which is surprising since she is terrified of cats and chihuahuas. It's really hard not to just reach out and pet the giraffe, but I managed. Our entire day was choreographed around the Tangled Soundtrack: in the car, at home, and spontaneously a capella if there were no electronic devices. Amelia is very robust in her singing. After being henpecked all week about when she gets to open her presents, we decided to let her open one present Saturday and Sunday. She basically knew and saw almost all of them, so it wasn't too big of a deal. She was really excited to get a Rapunzel doll from Ben and was a great sport about acting surprised when she opened it, since she had very specific instructions for Ben as to which doll he should get her and how to wrap it up. He was very accommodating (of course). The doll accompanied us on all our activities!!















Next, she got to be recognized at her church class on Sunday. This entails getting to stand up in front of everyone, wear a special birthday hat, have them read special things about her, give her a big birthday sticker, sing to her and give her some candy. Seriously, she thought she was a superstar. She could not stop grinning all day. I didn't see it, but I heard about it and it was pretty cute how excited she was. You can see the sticker in one of the pictures. It stayed on the entire day!! Then she requested that as a family we watch Tangled with previously mentioned doll which she used to reenact all the parts of the movie!!! She loved it.

Since today was her official birthday, we did cake and all that amidst running around getting last minute forms for school (can I just say sending a child to school who requires medicine is a quite a chore and with all her food allergies it is terrifying. You have to totally trust that they will protect her and that they understand how severe it is while also not making too much of a deal so she is not considered "fragile" and left out of everything......hmpf, it's exhausting mentally). Amelia helped me decorate the flowers on her tower cake. She also requested that we eat hazelnut soup, which if you don't know, is Rapunzel's favorite thing and her mother makes it for her on her birthday. Since Amelia is allergic to nuts, we used chicken noodle!!! She knew I made her a Rapunzel costume because she had to have it fitted on her multiple times, but I did all the details while she was asleep, so the final product was a little bit of a surprise. She wanted to wear the dress while she ate her hazelnut soup!!! It was a great day and a great end to our summer.
A few fun things about her:
She is not shy of the camera and hams it up, poses and all.
She loves being fancy and all things girly, pink and sparkly. Think real life Fancy Nancy on our hands!!!
She loves being a "mommy" to dolls, animals and Ben
She may have a bigger sweet tooth than me!!!
I love that she believes I can make or fix anything.
Although she is the first to fight and torture Ben, she is the first to stand up and protect him when we go anywhere.
She has tons of energy and loves learning and life.
She said 0n her birthday questionnaire that she wants to be a mommy when she grows up and her favorite holiday is her birthday. I couldn't agree more!!!
She is so excited to start Kindergarten tomorrow she can hardly sit still. She got to meet her teacher today and see her classroom and she is ready to go to school, without us, she reminded me!! Good, then no one has to see me cry as I watch her grow up right before my eyes.
I love this little girl and will miss her all morning while she's gone (or at least for the first week or so until I realize how easy it is to just have 1 child at home again:)

Green girl

Ben is terrible at remembering names. He can never tell us who he has been playing with. Today he was naming off (in a prayer) who he was glad he played with..."T.J, and green girl". He was referring to a little girl wearing a green dress. It made me stifle quite a laugh!!

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Found this

I walked into my "dining room" (it's more like a corner and the only table that fit is my craft table so please don't think this Lifetime plastic table is my idea of an appropriate dining room table....we just make do, and please ignore the gross crumbs everywhere also!!!) Sunday after a little nap to find this. I thought it was pretty great I had to share. I really love my boy and his creative play. And I love when I see that my dollar bin, potty training bribes are totally worth it. We are diaper free (during the day) for a few weeks now thanks to these guys and a pad of stickers!!! Ben reminds us that these are nice army guys and they don't fight with each other. And the ones who are kneeling with missile launchers, those are actually guys who fix your tires or puts gas in your car. The one aiming a skinner gun at hip height lives in a fire station. The other one holding a gun at hip height lives in space and has a gun. The man holding a walkie talkie just always calls his friend. The one on one knee lives on a farm and helps ducks get back in water. How sad will it be if he really learns what they do?!?!

Ahoy you landlubbers!!!

My baby is 3 now and he is just as adorable and cuddly as the day he was born. He is funny and very into pirates, lasers, cars and anything to do with a movie he has seen even once.
Enjoy this sea of pictures from Ben's pirate extravaganza!!
The day started off with a hunt around the house to find a treasure in the mailbox.....a pirate shirt for his day of pirating. The bottom left pic is Ben giving you the pirate eye and the next 3 beside it is his tough guy/pirate/super hero stance. It's also what he does right before he runs really fast, don't ask me why!!

Next, off to the zoo where Ben got to feed a giraffe lettuce. He was not at all interested in the idea when we first proposed it a week ago. He slowly warmed to it and last night, finally resolved that he wanted to do it. When we arrived at the zoo, he as on a mission: feed that giraffe!!! He wanted dad to go with him (lucky). I love this series of pics. The bottom left picture was right after he fed it the first piece. He is laughing and saying, "the giraffe licked my hand". He wasn't at all scared and was so happy. Look closely and you can see it's long tongue licking him.

Next, a train ride around the zoo (a total lame rip off, but it's his birthday right!!) and cardboarding down the hill. Can't make a trip there without the cardboarding. I can't say it enough, this is the most beautiful zoo ever. The giraffes have beach front property, at noon it was 73 and blue skies. Santa Barbara is what I imagine heaven to be like.

And last but not least, home for birthday cake and presents. Amelia's MM's (see my last post for the explanation). Although Ben doesn't seem excited in the pic (mainly because Amelia was touching him and he didn't want to be touched) he was so thrilled to get his very own bag of MM's. I (with the help of a few little hands that "tested for poison") made a pirate ship cake with a very sorry attempt at cake pop pirates. Borderline cakewrecks people, but I am posting it anyway because who am I impressing. Kudos to bakerella (the creator of cake pops) for the patience and total attention to detail to make these little creations. I couldn't even get my candy melts to melt properly (granted I have no microwave, so I am blaming it on that). Not a skill for me I guess. The ship was a hit. I managed to keep the finished product a surprise from Ben so he is seeing it for the first time in the pic at the bottom right corner. Amelia wrapped his present in homemade wrapping pirate paper and it was too cute to not show her writing and drawings. Ben got a cape that Amelia and I made while he was napping one day (inspired by my sis-in-laws capes she made for her boys while I visited her at the cabin). I was so proud of Amelia not spoiling it for 2 weeks!! He has yet to take it off. The pic on the bottom 2nd from the left is him seeing if it makes him fly!! His response: "it does make me fly!!"

When all was said and done, I have to say, this pirate birthday stuff was one of my favorite to plan and execute. But it's easy to do something to get to see this smiling face!! Happy Birthday Ben!